Odie has fallen down on his head. That's how I've felt the entire month of September.
We had a good summer getting used to our new home and some new chores, routine and being outside more than ever before. The end of August I decided we needed a "staycation" to help me finish some projects. On day two, we discovered the water dispenser had a slow leak...on the hardwood floor. We had to unload and remove the big Expedit shelf from the dining room. Since I thought it was the shower leaking at first, the landlord came and cut holes in the wet dining room drywall. Now that needs to be repaired along with the hardwood floors. Repairing drywall is a process...the drywall has been replaced and the initial mudding needs to happen, then texturing and painting. Sigh.
The weather has changed (welcome autumn!) and I feel derailed. Shorter, darker days are approaching...poured (POURED) rain under dark gray skies, this is day three. The sun came out for about 40 minutes...we took advantage and ran out and did our daily weeding. Then more wet...gray and dark at 3:30pm! The neighbor's solar powered barn light is already on! Deluge!
I have this tendency to want to change things up, but when I try to change things and it doesn't work, I go to the Lord, who keeps telling me to "keep doing the same things". Awhile ago, He led me to start our day with a load of laundry...it WORKS for me! It really DOES work...keep doing it!
I've been using the index cards which have worked awesome for chores! Dan wanted to go back to the sheets after about six months, so he could have more control over checking off his completed tasks. I want to encourage initiative, so we're using sheets again. Sarah wanted to stick to the cards, but for now, I'm just reading off her tasks and keeping track of what she still needs to do on my own daily sheet.
Here's our daily routine:
Start day with load of laundry/folding
Breakfast
Table Time
Chores, weeding & pickup
Productive Free Time
We all have lists for each day plus a chore we do together:
Mon: clean bathrooms
Tues: collect garbage
Wed: put folded laundry in rooms
Thu: vacuum
Fri: fresh toothbrush cups/fill soap dispensers
On the kids' daily lists:
-get dressed/brush teeth
-put out fresh hand towels
-empty dishwasher
-open living room blind
-sweep kitchen & cat litter area
-take out garbage
-collect & sort laundry
Our "Monday Chore Day" didn't really work. We decided we like to do a little everyday instead of a lot on one day, which I prefer anyways.
Recently, there's been some grumbling about who-sorts-the-laundry-when. Since the implementation of chores around here, Dan has always emptied certain parts of the dishwasher every morning with Sarah doing other parts. The kids collect and sort the laundry on Mondays and Fridays, but we added Wednesday when we moved. After some discussion, I've decided that Dan will do the MWF laundry collect and sort while Sarah takes over the entire dishwasher. This worked well last week and the grumbling has ceased. Emptying the dishwasher every morning has become such a habit for Daniel, that he's found himself opening the dishwasher only to realize "I don't have to do it"!
I've decided that I need to switch gears when I start preparing dinner. I need to have my stuff all wrapped up so I can give my family my undivided attention. This has been really good...once dinner comes around, I'm available for whatever comes up for family time-no computer, no projects.
I like to post these things in detail because it is fun to have a record when I look back on our growth process. I think the most recent post on this topic was last November, so much has changed since then!
I absolutely love the details and now that we've been to your new house, I can picture you in all the rooms doing your daily chores. I am lamenting the return of autumn, even though it's really one of my favorite seasons! I don't feel ready for winter. I guess I must reel back in my thoughts and take it one day at a time, one thing at a time. We are also reclaiming some family chore time and it is wonderful! I have instituted a no-media policy until their bedroom is clean and their things are all picked up from the rest of the house.
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